Bonnie’s Personal Mantra for You to Repeat Daily:
"Life was never meant to be this complicated. Period."
"Life was never meant to be this complicated. Period."
STRAIGHT WIVES COMPUTER RADIO TALK SHOW Debbie Thomas-Brown on Straight Wives Computer Radio Show Debbie Thomas-Brown was our guest for one hour on: Sunday, November 20, 2011 Live show times are 10 p.m. EST, 9 p.m. CT, 8 p.m. MT, and 7 p.m. PT. To listen to our show, click into this link or paste it into your browser: http://www.blogtalkradio.com When the screen comes up, type in into the search bar at the top of the page Straight Wives Talk Show, and our show with will appear. You can click into the show for November 20, 2011 and listen. Our guest also welcomes any questions you might have. You can call in during the hour live, at 646 - 716 - 4893. You can access the show anytime if you go to our archives by pasting this link into your browser: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/search/straight-wives-talk-show/archives/ There you can click on Debbie’s show that is listed for November 20, 2011 When No One Really Understands... Bonnie Kaye, M.Ed., The world recognized specialist in straight/gay relationship counseling for 24 years, is now available to work with you via telephone, a personal live private chat room, instant messaging, email, or in person when locality permits. Bonnie is the "go-to" person when media news stories need advice. She was a resource for Oprah Winfrey, Dr. Phil, Montel Williams, and Tyra Banks. She has recently appeared as a guest on CNN, FOX News, and Women's Entertainment Network as a professional counseling expert in this field. How you proceed in your marriage is your choice; however, she will help you find the right answers and give you the support you need on your journey. Bonnie Kaye specializes in helping you through destructive relationships. She offers the following services: • The official Gay Husband checklist to help determine if your husband is gay. Free information and literature. Counseling for straight wives. • Free counseling for gay men who are ready to come out to their wives. Private counseling for straight wives or couples by phone or e-mail. Bonnie's Newsletter Archive 
Misti Hall, MS Misti Hall is a gifted, compassionate and caring Life Coach who gives one hope!!! Misti Hall can be heard on BlogTalk Radio on Sunday Nights with Bonnie Kaye on the Straight Wives radio show. 
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Are you picking up the pieces of your shattered life? Not knowing where to turn or, who to talk to? Misti Hall Can Help You. 50 WAYS GAY MEN SAY NO TO SEX WITH THEIR WIVES
This article is reprinted from my September 2011 newsletter. If you would like to be on my monthly mailing list, just email me and Bonkaye@aol.com and request it. Remember my mantra--Life was never meant to be this complicated. Period. Say it ten times a day until you believe it! Life will get better. Promise. GAY HUSBANDS SAY THE “DARNDEST THINGS”! In the thousands of letters for help or support I receive each year, at least half of them are from women who HAVE NO PROOF. They have a gut feeling, but they don’t trust it. That’s because their sense of reality has been “slip slidin’ away” from the chaos and confusion their husbands have been putting them through. On Monday night, November 14, 2011, at 11:00pm EST, 10:00pm CT, 9:00pm MT, and 8:00 pm PT, Bonnie Kaye will be the guest on the Donneth Radio Show with 'Community Solutions'. We will be discussing Straight Spouse issues. Learn about the issues that affect all women going through this situation by clicking this link: www.wavs1170.com, You can listen or watch the program live as Bonnie shares her expertise with the radio audience. www.wavs1170.com, If you want to interact with the radio guest and hosts, you can call in live at: 954-792-1170, or 305-948-1170 When the webpage comes up, click on the web camera icon at the top of the page, to watch and listen live. PROFOUND AND REVEALING WORDS FROM A GAY EX-HUSBAND
By Bonnie Kaye I receive several letters each week from men who are struggling to come out to their wives. I respond quickly to these men in hopes that my support and encouragement will give them the courage to be honest with their spouses. I also receive several letters each month from gay men who find my website or see my book who commend me for the work I am doing in helping people understand the complexities of straight/gay marriages. Two months ago, I received a letter from a man who was about to become an important part of my life. Jay is an attorney in Pennsylvania. He is the first man I have ever met who can write words in a manner that clarified all of my own thoughts and feelings allowing me to conceptualize a key to the problem of straight/gay marriages that I will share with you. Jay’s sensitivity and honesty reflects what most of us would like our husbands or ex-husbands to tell us. Too few of us ever get to hear these words. I asked Jay if I could reprint some of his thoughts because I believe it validates so much of what all of us feel and need to hear. After reading his words, I am sure you will appreciate not only what he says, but also the beauty of how he says it. Jay’s first communication to me in early February stated: And now for Rhonda’s Letter of Hope for you….
Dear Sisters; Bonnie asked me to write to you, but first you should know that I pray for each of you every time I see a newsletter from Bonnie in my email. It wasn’t so long ago that I waited for Bonnie’s newsletters, hoping they would help me make sense of something absolutely crazy and foreign to me. You will never be able to make sense of someone else’s inner chaos. But you can survive this—and thrive—and, when you do what you need to take care of yourself first, you will learn to love and trust a man again. LIVING LA VIDA LIMBO
By Bonnie Kaye Let’s discuss married gay men who won’t leave the marriage or for that matter, won’t leave the closet. This is a subject that can never be talked about enough because it seems to be a stumbling block for so many of us who can’t get our husbands to “come clean” with the truth about their homosexuality. I receive so many letters each month from women who are sure about their husbands but fear confronting them. But I also get letters from women who do confront their husbands with evidence in hand and get denials with distorted truths giving excuses such as “Those pictures belonged to a co-worker,” or “I have no clue how those websites got on our computer.” Just My Opinion..... by Misti Hall, M.S Often times I here from others that it must be much easier discovering that your spouse is gay and having an affair with a man vs. being straight and having an affair with a woman. Well, professionally and personally speaking, this is not true. There is no solace in finding out your husband has had an affair with a man instead of a woman. I am not discounting infidelity in any relations. Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal of trust a couple may experience. Then add on top of the betrayal a discovery that your husband is Gay. It makes the whole situation more complicated. Thus, for most Straight Spouses it adds more layers of complication and grief to work through. This type of discovery (finding out that our husband/mate is Gay) changes who you are...how you define yourself...how you see yourself...and brings on a level of shame and guilt that is hard to describe, unless you have experienced it. Not only do Straight Wives deal with infidelity.....they usually walk into the closet with their Gay husband/partner. To many outsiders it seems like a "no-brainer".....your husband is Gay, so separation should be more simple. If only that was the case! It is not simple. So, if you are a Straight Spouse and you feel abnormal the next time you hear, "Oh, it must be easier because your husband cheated with a man"...please understand they have not experienced your situation. Dear Straight Wives you DO NOT have to discount your pain, your frustration, your grief, your emotions, etc. This is a very pain situation....a crisis at best. For all others, please be extra cautious when trying to discount some one's pain. It doesn't make the person feel better...let them feel their pain and as a friend, practice being a listener for them. Misti Hall, M.S., is a Life Coach, Educator and Author. She is an expert in Straight Spouse issues. |  AuthorBonnie Kaye, M.Ed., the world recognized specialist in straight/gay relationship counseling for 24 years. 
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