NEXT STRAIGHT WIVES HEALING WEEKEND
Philadelphia, PA — September 28 & 29, 2013
This free weekend workshop is Bonnie's gift to women in pain. 
For more information, write to me at Bonkaye@aol.com

Men Who Are Sexually "CONfused"

CONFUSION In any given week, I receive between 60 - 100 letters for help from women who are questioning their husbands' sexuality. The majority of women who write to me are not quite sure. They suspect, but they don't have actual "proof." Well, what "actual proof" means is that they haven't had a full confession from their husband or caught him in the act.Of course, the first thing I ask those who write to me is why they suspect that "gay" is the issue in their marriages. More often than not, I hear these words: "My husband says he is 'CONFUSED'." As soon as I hear the "C" word, I know the hopes of these women are about to be shattered--first by me, and then by their husbands.

The "C Word"-- "CONfused"- is one step before the "B word" -- "Bisexual." You remember that "trendy" word that makes women feel they have "a 50/50 chance" of winning their husbands' love and affection if only they are better wives....better cooks....better housekeepers....lose excess pounds....devote more of their time to recognizing their husbands' needs and frustrations....shut up more than express their feelings....etc

 A Tribute to Bonnie Kaye our Straight Wives Mentor

I was saving this tribute for a later time, but I believe now is an appropriate time for me to share it with you and our Straight Wife Sisters. I wanted to read it in Houston but it felt like it was too much, when so many were hurting so badly. 
                                                             >>>>Read More Here

Dear Members of the Support Chat group, 

As I mentioned to you, we will be chatting in a new room.

Please use this link for the future chats by copying and pasting it into your browser: 

http://www.websitetoolbox.com/tool/chat/bonniekayesupportroom

When you go to this site, you will be asked to register. When you register there, you'll be asked to pick a screen name. Since you have the opportunity to change your screen name for this chat, I would like to ask you to pick a first or middle name like Carly M. or Sally B. You can use your middle name if you prefer. It really gets difficult remembering  nicknames that don' t have a personal connection to others. Names like "a woman scorned" or "mad as hell" get people mixed up. 

Next, after you are signed up, please email me back your screen name. Also include your city and/or  state that I will NOT share with others. If you are in Canada or another part of the world, please let me know that as well. 

I know that the chat box is not as large as AOL's, but you'll be able to get on easily and pay attention as we move along! It doesn't matter what kind of computer you are using, and we don't have to depend on AOL. Also, you don't have to be invited in by me. You can enter on your own whenever you get there. You can also make arrangements with other support chat members to chat with them any time we are not in the chatroom for our Sunday chat.

Shortly, I will be starting an "SOS" chat for women who have emergencies. If any of you or future members really are going through a bad day/week/life and need some extra support, all you have to do is email me and I will set up a time and send out an SOS to all of the members of our chat. If any of you are available at that time, you can join up to lend that support. 

So starting this week, we'll be using the Toolbox Chat Site. Please let me know when you are registered and if you have any problems accessing the site.

Love, Bonnie

Misti Hall, MS

Misti Hall is a gifted, compassionate and caring Life Coach who gives one hope!!!  Misti Hall can be heard on BlogTalk Radio on Sunday Nights with Bonnie Kaye on the Straight Wives radio show.