If you have ever been hurt by a man who cheats with a woman, just remember how that felt and multiply that by 100 and that is how straight spouses feel after discovery or disclosure of a gay spouse.
You seem to have a great rapport with Precious so far so please do me this favor. Implore her to get a whole battery of STD tests...right now. Even if she was tested before tell her to get tested again and to include HIV, HSV1, HSV2, Hep B & C, Gonorrhea and Syphillis and anything else she wants to include.
She must make sure her health is OK now, so her healing journey will not be impacted by any surprises later.
Thank you for your words to her. Wow! They touched even me who felt like well seasoned meat. I will write to her from home because she is behaving like a typical straight spouse. She should not be left alone to deal with this all by herself. She is in the anger mode and this is a dangerous time for her and HIM especially. I will include her in my prayers.
Kindness Ambassador Blessings to You;