Dr. Cooper shared your email and I am so sorry to know that you are a straight spouse. It breaks my heart every time another woman writes or calls. However, I am feeling happy to know that you are already on your healing journey. You are smart to reach out for support. You are not alone!
You are in typical straight spouse mode right no and it's OK. That is survival mode too. There is nothing wrong with you. You have something unfortunate happen in your life but that does not mean you are flawed. Yes, we sometimes feel broken because of the devastating deception and shame that we have endured, but that does not make us flawed...It makes us human...WOMAN.