Dr. Cooper you are spot on about the way straight spouses feel. Everyone seems to be ignoring the fact that because of the potential for criminal charges, gay, bisexual and transgender men are living in the closet and using our beautiful sisters as their 'beards' to hide their true sexual orientation.
Those gay men have J-Flag even if they hide to access it's services. What do the straight spouses have besides lowered self esteem, lowered sexual esteem, and being told constantly that they are crazy,
Society criminalize the gays behavior but failed to realize that won't change men from gay to straight. It just makes more of them go on the 'down low' to hide their true sexual orientation by 'shacking up' with our unsuspecting women for many years at a time, or sometimes marrying them and keeping them in sexual limbo while treating the sisters like they are the ones with the problem why the sex is bad or why they can't get it up to perform.
Yes, we need a straight spouse support group for our Jamaican women and some men who got duped by 'Saturday Night Lesbians.' South Florida Connects, Inc. is ready to help anyone who wants to address the plight of our women by starting a 'Straight Spouse Support Group' to reach out to our Jamaican women who are being emotionally and psychologically devastated by closeted, Jamaican men.
Kindness Ambassador Blessings to You.