Some of you have been languishing in a destructive relationship or marriage for years. You are throwing away valuable years of your life that can never be regained. Once they are gone, they are gone.
Some of you feel compelled to stay in these marriages because you have no 'proof ' that your husband is gay, when sometimes you have more than enough proof. A woman will never tell a complete stranger that she believes her husband or boyfriend is gay unless she really believes in some part in her gut.
You know your self esteem is gone down to zero. Your sexual esteem is non existent, You forget what you are worth. Your spouse is cheating with men. You are unhappy... That’s more than enough of a reason for some people to leave a dysfunctional marriage.
You don’t have to prove that a husband is gay to get a divorce. Just suffering in a marriage with someone who lacks passion, compassion, intimacy, and respect mixed in with infidelity is grounds for a divorce. When women who are married to straight men decide they want a divorce, they don’t have to spend years figuring out how to justify
it. Why should you?